| Location | Bedford |
| Age | 69 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1937 |
| Date of Death | 2006 |
| Visitors | 951 since 29/12/2006 |
| Creator |
This memorial is dedicated to my mum,Martha who died suddenly on 2nd January 2006,leaving behind myself Diane and my sister Sue and her 5 grandchildren Chris,Emma,Katie,Sophie and Erin.
Mum was the most fantastic,unselfish person you could ever hope to meet,she lived and breathed for my sister Sue,myself and her grandchildren.As long as we were happy then so was she.
She never had a easy life but you would never hear her complain.
The hardest part of coming to terms with her dying is the fact that she died alone.she spent her last day with myself,craig my husband and our children.She would often sleep over but this particular night she went home,oh how i wish she had stayed.
Its just coming up to the first anniversary of the day she left us so i wanted to set up this memorial for her,to let everyone who reads it know how very much she is loved and how we miss her so much,our lives will never be the same without her.
MUM
Sad are the hearts that love you
Silent the tears that fall
Living our lives without you
is the hardest part of all.
Hi Diane
I would say the feather was a definate sign from your mum.It was so nice to log on and hear your news.I'm so glad that Katie is happier now and things have taken off for Craig.I hardly ever come on now trying hard not to dwell to much!!!!!!! Think about you often I miss our chats! I'm still fat!!!!!! Diet non exsistent have joined the Gym in preparation for the big 50 this september! Cant and don't want to be fat at 50!!!!!!! Ha Ha Will keep you posted. Will come back on soon
Take care Diane
love linda xxx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUM,wherever you may be & whatever you are doing i hope you are happy & i hope you know how very much we all miss you & wish we could spoil you today on your special day.
Life will never be the same without you,the hole in my life just keeps getting bigger & will continue to do so that i do know.
Just about to bring some flowers to the cemetry for you, please look out for us
If that feather landing at my feet was you today then thank you, i hope it was.
All my love as always mum, your daughter Diane. xxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Diane
I am so sorry I think I must have been asleep when I wrote your last message.Im so sorry that Katie was sentenced. I hope that you are all bearing up especially Katie it can't be nice for her in there! There is nothing i can say that will make you feel better about all this please know that Im there for you as always. I hope that once this is all by that things improve for you all and that Craig gets another job.Thinking about you and send all my love and strength hope it helps.
Love linda xxxxxxx
Hi Diane
It was so nice to hear from you.I don't come on as often as I feel it not my site anymore with the changes.I have missed our chats.Sorry to hear that craig has lost his job.Hope things went ok for Katie and her sentence wasnt long. Hope you are ok as this will all have had a terrible effect on you.My thoughts are with you and I will try and send some healing vibes to you.Im sure your mum is looking out for you all.It would have been my mums 70 th birthday today.I know what you mean my heart is broken and things seem to get worse instead of better. Sending you a great big hug and much love diane.
Love linda xx
hope to hear from you soon.
Hi mum me again,feeling really fed up & sorry for myself,Katie was sentenced to 8 months yesterday she will have to serve half of that time but no matter how many times everyone tells me what a short time that is & how quickly it will go it still feels like a lifetime to wait.I know she has done wrong im so ashamed of what she has done it still kills me to think of her in there,it doesn't help that its her 21st birthday next week well its definately one she will always remember.
I can go to visit her tommorow which i cant wait for but am dreading at the same time,how i will leave her there i just don't know mum.Please give me & Katie the strength to get through this,i have come to hate & dread januarys so much they always have some disaster waiting for us,infact if i could go to sleep now & wake up in may then i willingly would!
Well mum as usual life goes on & we will come through this stronger hopefully & be able to wipe the slate clean & start afresh.Missing you as much as ever but at the same time im so glad your not here to see this happening,i know it would surely break your heart.
Speak to you soon mum all my love & so much more, Diane.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi mum.This time 3 years ago i was getting ready to go to Tesco's with Sue & then coming to lunch at yours but that never happened did it mum instead our lives changed in the worse possible way & would never be the same again.Can't believe its been 3 years now,it still seems like yesterday & i hate it mum i miss you like mad & always will.
We will be coming to the cemetry this morning with some flowers for you,i told Erin she could ride her scooter there hope you will see her,a sign from you would make my day mum.
Love you mum xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Mum,not been on line for ages but as im sure you know that doesn't mean your not in my thoughts constantly as im always talking to you out loud like some mad woman!
Missing you so much mum even more now christmas is here again,our 3rd one without you its just not the same without you at all. Im going to the cemetry today to bring you,nan & auntie Eileen some flowers,i hope you see them. Im really disappointed that there is no rose on your tree to bring up to you this year,the last 2 christmas's there has been a single rose bud on it which always brings a tear to my eyes.
Well mum,Happy Christmas,please look down on us & keep us safe,love you loads mum.xxxxxxx
Hi Diane
Hope you are all well?Have been quite down and haven't felt like coming on to the site.I think I prefer the old site not sure I like this one! What about you?I feel its not my site somehow,do you know what I mean? Looking forward to seeing erins school photos. Hope shes still enjoying it as much.Take full advantage of your free time .Diets rubbish back to just lost a stone again!!!!!! Hows your doing? Was a dublin with my friend for a few days had a fab time but very expensive! Off to cyprus in 3 weeks hope to lose a 1/2 stone before I go!!!!!!!!!!! mmm chocolate oops no lost weight! ha ha.
Hope to hear from you soon lots of love linda xxx
Hi Mum,well Erin has just had her 2nd day at "big" school & looked absolutely gorgeous in her uniform i hope you could see her she looks so grown up i can't believe it she's not my little baby anymore but she will always be my baby!I keep picturing your face seeing her all dressed up ready to go, i know you would have shed a tear or two or three knowing you, thats what made you the special person that you always were you cared so much for us all always putting yourself way way below everyone else,as long as we were ok then so were you.I really miss you mum,don't really know why this week seems harder without you than any other but it really does.
Katie started her college course yesterday in hair & beauty, whether she keeps it up is anyones guess but i hope she does. At least while she is there she is away from that nasty person she calls her boyfriend!
Sophie started 6th form last week & seems to be doing ok though i think its all a bit daunting for her at the moment as she feels like the new girl all over again with all the older 6th formers being there but im sure she will be ok.
Well mum i'd better go & get some housework done now as the day is flying by as usual,i will be back soon to put some photo's on of Erin in her uniform so bye for now mum,love you sooooooooooooo very very much.xxxxxxxxx
With love
A Special Hug ((((HUG))))
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I'm sending you a special hug, dont ask me why or how, I just feel that you need it so I'm sending you one now.
You may be feeling sad today for some things aren't quite right, and the cheery smile you usually wear has slipped right out of sight.
So I hope my hug will help to make your spirits soar but if you find one's not enough then I'll happily send you more.
(((((HUG))))
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lots of love linda xx
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